HOW I SAVED MY RELATIONSHIP FROM BREAKING-UP.

After four years of living together, I need a break. He’s moody and horrible at the best of times. When I suggest separation, all he can say is that he’s not going anywhere and he loves living with me. He makes an effort for a while then reverts back to the a-hole. I asked him if we could try living separately (like at the beginning of the relationship) and still seeing each other and being a couple. He says all or nothing. The only reason I want to try living separately is to SAVE the relationship from break-up. But he won’t even consider it. If I stay, I have to put up with his emotional abuse. If I leave, I lose him. I’ll probably opt for losing him. I wish he would just try it. But I know he doesn’t want to find another job and live in the city. We share my cottage in the country and he doesn’t work full-time because our expenses are low. He’d have to move back to the city and work full-time, I suspect that’s why he won’t try it. Oh well. Thank goodness that Dr Nkosi was the man i contacted that helped me settled our relationship differences for total agreement between us fastsolutiontemples26@gmail.com